well, you should know how to spell it if you are going to do a project about it! you are kidding me, right?

hello, I just read your post & I am sorry to tell you, but all money received is to be reported & it would count as support. This is the law & I think that you know it is. As far as the visits are concerned, the only victims here would be your children & the example that you are sending them, by using the issue as a means of getting back at your ex. You need to think of your children first & not your issues with the ex. If you believe that she is not paying enough support, then take her back to court & ask for more money. Also, let the judge know just how you have handled the situation & you will get an ear full from the judge. In family court, the judge will look at what is best for the kids.