I'm unsure if they can work I just got out of one and let me just tell you it ruined me. The girl I was dating I gave her my all I even applied to college there she said she needed me to be closer and she couldn't wait for me to get out of college. So stupid me only applied to a college in her state we are over 2000 miles away from one another. She broke up with me very recently and now I'm stuck going to college there and my heart is broken. She said it was her not me but my advice is not to be stupid don't do what I did I gave up absolutely everything for her because I was in love and didn't even think what if something bad happened. So always have a back up plan because I sure didn't