Chris,
It appears that you are no longer using this site, but I will comment anyway. Carebear's replies were genuine and I agree with them. I do question the fact that your profile states you are open to having an "intimate encounter". Please hear me out: A true Christian would not be looking for an intimate encounter on a dating site. As Christians, the only reason we should be on a dating site is for the intent of marriage (or friendship only). Which includes NO sex outside of marriage. All sexual sin is considered disobedience, which is an offense to God. Yes, we've all done it (I speak for myself), but we are called to turn (repent) from disobedience. As believers we are new creations in Christ to do good works. No, we are not saved by our good works, but as ~James 2:14 states we strive to live as God has called us to out of gratitude, not obligation. If we don't seek to do God's will, then how can be considered true followers of Christ? ~John 14:15
True believers seek God in His Word daily, they do not forsake the church and they also seek to have peace with all. I recommend spending time in God's Word if you earnestly want to know if you are a true believer.