make sure that you feel safe when you set up time to meet him...have a friend call you at a designated time...and make sure that friend has the contact info that you do re: him...i will often tell the men i am meeting that i have someone calling who has all the same info that i do...NEVER get in a vehicle or go to a private meeting place...stay in public...if you hit it off there will be plenty of time down the road for all of that...do some research on online dating...just google it...if he is a gentleman he will wait until you feel comfortable...good luck! let us know if you do meet him! heck..post it right here (all the contact info) if it makes you feel safer!