A little wisdom...don't try so hard with respect to wanting a relationship. It has to come naturally and it will click when you find the right one! The old saying patience is a virtue...if you try to rush things then your most likely to scare her away.

Relationships build according to experiences, make your experience with a person you are interested more than just about sexual chemistry.

The idea of an older woman is not always the best as these woman can sometimes be on the rebound from bad break-ups and feel men are good for one thing only! So you are back to square one. This does not include all women in that age bracket considered to be "cougars" which is an awful term.

It simply comes down to the woman on a case by case scenario...she has to want to be at that stage in her life where she wants a relationship. That type of woman is hard to find. You are unlikely to find this type of woman in a bar...if she is all over you on the dance floor then she is likely only there for one thing and that is unlikely to be a relationship...perhaps the coffee shop, the library...out walking her dog.

Best thing you can do is be honest to yourself and the women you date while you determine if they are the right one for you.

Remember the old saying friends make the best lovers...this is true...most women want to find a guy they can trust, so that just does not happen in a day. If you want a relationship to build then build it slowly with that person. Biggest thing pay attention to her!!!! Lol

Good luck in finding your relationship :)