Topic: why am i not successful in finding the right woman
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Thu 01/30/14 05:14 AM
Why is it that I always find the type of woman that just wants to mess around and not have a serious relationship and is there anyone out there looking for a ltr

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 01/30/14 05:25 AM

Why is it that I always find the type of woman that just wants to mess around and not have a serious relationship and is there anyone out there looking for a ltr


Uh, why should a woman your age want a serious relationship so soon in her life?

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Thu 01/30/14 05:38 AM
Shoot for a really old cougar. Like around 30 years old.

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Thu 01/30/14 05:40 AM
Edited by Unknow on Thu 01/30/14 05:40 AM

Shoot for a really old cougar. Like around 30 years old.




rofl

Im going to need more coffee for this one topic... whoa slaphead

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Thu 01/30/14 06:10 AM
A little wisdom...don't try so hard with respect to wanting a relationship. It has to come naturally and it will click when you find the right one! The old saying patience is a virtue...if you try to rush things then your most likely to scare her away.

Relationships build according to experiences, make your experience with a person you are interested more than just about sexual chemistry.

The idea of an older woman is not always the best as these woman can sometimes be on the rebound from bad break-ups and feel men are good for one thing only! So you are back to square one. This does not include all women in that age bracket considered to be "cougars" which is an awful term.

It simply comes down to the woman on a case by case scenario...she has to want to be at that stage in her life where she wants a relationship. That type of woman is hard to find. You are unlikely to find this type of woman in a bar...if she is all over you on the dance floor then she is likely only there for one thing and that is unlikely to be a relationship...perhaps the coffee shop, the library...out walking her dog.

Best thing you can do is be honest to yourself and the women you date while you determine if they are the right one for you.

Remember the old saying friends make the best lovers...this is true...most women want to find a guy they can trust, so that just does not happen in a day. If you want a relationship to build then build it slowly with that person. Biggest thing pay attention to her!!!! Lol

Good luck in finding your relationship :)

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Thu 01/30/14 06:18 AM
Edited by willing2 on Thu 01/30/14 06:19 AM
At 19 years old,the last thing I wanted was a ball n chain.

If I wasn't slappin the anaconda, I'd be working on tappin as much tail as I could snatch up.

sybariticguy's photo
Thu 01/30/14 06:46 AM
The words spoken by a gentleman whose life is dictated by his penis unaware there is more to life and love than sexual gratification,,,

willing2's photo
Thu 01/30/14 06:55 AM

The words spoken by a gentleman whose life is dictated by his penis unaware there is more to life and love than sexual gratification,,,

What was your goal when you was a teenager?laugh

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Thu 01/30/14 07:51 AM

A little wisdom...don't try so hard with respect to wanting a relationship. It has to come naturally and it will click when you find the right one! The old saying patience is a virtue...if you try to rush things then your most likely to scare her away.

Relationships build according to experiences, make your experience with a person you are interested more than just about sexual chemistry.

The idea of an older woman is not always the best as these woman can sometimes be on the rebound from bad break-ups and feel men are good for one thing only! So you are back to square one. This does not include all women in that age bracket considered to be "cougars" which is an awful term.

It simply comes down to the woman on a case by case scenario...she has to want to be at that stage in her life where she wants a relationship. That type of woman is hard to find. You are unlikely to find this type of woman in a bar...if she is all over you on the dance floor then she is likely only there for one thing and that is unlikely to be a relationship...perhaps the coffee shop, the library...out walking her dog.

Best thing you can do is be honest to yourself and the women you date while you determine if they are the right one for you.

Remember the old saying friends make the best lovers...this is true...most women want to find a guy they can trust, so that just does not happen in a day. If you want a relationship to build then build it slowly with that person. Biggest thing pay attention to her!!!! Lol

Good luck in finding your relationship :)

Very well said!

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Thu 01/30/14 08:04 AM

Why is it that I always find the type of woman that just wants to mess around and not have a serious relationship and is there anyone out there looking for a ltr


It might just be your age:smile: ...At or around age 19, many are not ready for serious relationships...It's all about experiencing life, having fun, learning new things...It's about starting college, working for the first time, having one's own money and anonymity...Some are ready for "serious" sooner than others, but in you age range more are not than are, so be patient and enjoy the filtering process!:wink:

PS: A sweet question young man!:heart:

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Thu 01/30/14 08:13 AM

Shoot for a really old cougar. Like around 30 years old.

Hey, you just leave the cougars to me frustrated

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Thu 01/30/14 09:00 AM


Shoot for a really old cougar. Like around 30 years old.

Hey, you just leave the cougars to me frustrated

The kid sounding like he could use some mercy lovin'.:wink:

metalwing's photo
Thu 01/30/14 09:12 AM

Shoot for a really old cougar. Like around 30 years old.


40 wouldn't be bad! 50 might be better. 60 might be even better! over 60 might be best!!!!

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Thu 01/30/14 09:18 AM

Why is it that I always find the type of woman that just wants to mess around and not have a serious relationship and is there anyone out there looking for a ltr


Nope ... sorry ... I think most of us are here just for the forums shades