Wow, it seems this gets a wording discussion and a search for difference in opinion. That's fine and there will always be differences in opinions. I am glad there are differences; each has its own rules he or she lives by. I think that's great, the world would be so boring without it.

And when should we have sex? Before, during or after love? For ME there is one rule: It always take two to tango so when both are ready and want to, there will be sex. When someone thinks it's too late or too soon they always have a choice to bail out of the relationship.

All the best and happy holidays.