Thanks Mom.

I have finally figured out why God saves wisdom for the old. Not only does it even the playing field, I suggest the advantage is to the wise.

Appearances???

Some look fierce, but are mild. Some seem timid, but are vicious. Look beyond appearances and position yourself for the advantage.

Borderline~ Madonna

I am Sam. Sam I am. That Sam I am! I do not like that Sam I am. Do you like green eggd and ham?

Huh??? Sob story???

These are people's lives!!!
Not too long ago I also had a similar opinion. But my opinion was false, just as most.


What happened to compassion for our man??

Again my disclaimer.

I never give advice, I only speak my opinion which is solely based on personal experience.

I sacrificed savings account and signed over sole custody to the mother. That way our child has security. Both money and home.

In return, child's mother had to sign that I don't ever have to pay child support. (Now, easy ladies. I turned over a good amount of money freely.) Also she had to sign that I get to our child whenever I want for as long as I want, ( within reason of course)

And this agreement by two adults was solely planned out and agreed upon for the best interest of the child.

Too many times in custody battles egos get in the way. Before people know it, they lose focus on their child and what is best for them.

Now, my ex and I didn't come up with this all on our own, we a true mediator help keep the focus on our child.

I highly recommend this course of action for all custody battles.

You are the most beautiful woman
Just the thought of skin on skin
Makes me smile deep with in.
then came that night
When we made love so tight.
I can't believe I woke up the next morning and my penis was burning!!!

You no good little tramp!!! Why did you say you were a virgin???

Ummmmm... True story about a 16 year old losing hos virginity.

I finished work about an hour ago.
I'm outside in SoCal and it about 50 degrees. Clear night, no clouds.

Looking up I see stars. And I'm thinking.....


I have to get up tomorrow, when? Oh S**t!

I'm still looking at the stars as I pull from my pipe. Look down at my dog taking a nap. And I fantasize about how cool it would be if my dog could talk like Scooby Do!!!!

Solid advice from all as usual!

My opinion only, and my opinions are always based on my own personal experiences.

Trust!!!!

In order for any Union of marriage to work, both parties must have 100% trust in each other. That is the meat and potatoes of marriage. Like in the game of chess.
Control the middle, dominate the entire board!
Trust being the middle of the chess board.

First song was the first 6 months of divorce.

Cocaine Blues- Johnny Cash

Present day, I've moved on, and I do wish her the best

Call me a dog- Chris Cornell

Just few lines for those of you who don't know about the best voice in Rock.

But when it's my turn, to throw the next stone.
I'll call you beautiful...
If I call at all

That is some tight **** right there Chris!!!!

Mightymoe didn't recognize you without the mask! What up?

Sometimes there are no stars shining.
Scouting the edge of the universe.
Sometimes you can't see the horizon.
Between the ocean and the earth.

And just when you thought about slinking down.
I had to pull you up!
Had pull you out!

May I remind you of that sceen.
When our spirits were gasoline.
May I remind of that sceen
The day our spirits were gasoline.
Arms aloft
That day in( I can't understand him, some place in england)

Joe Strummer

WOW Jr!!!! No filter for you.

Love it. Not my thang, but hey....put it in where it fits.

Amazing, is that advice or ex price Jt?

Serious talk, this is a cat I want on my team. Just for the fact I don't want o face him. LOL

This is in response to the second part of the original post.

"HOLDING OUT"????

Really??? I have no idea where kids are raised these days.

Wow!!! U know your 40 when you start referring to people younger than u as kids.

Anyway. The term/phrase HOLDING OUT implies a power move. If a woman feels the need to play the "***** power" card, obviously gentleman the lady feels her voice or opinion is not being herd.

Cue to men: when a woman pull that card, that is not the time to have pride and show her your nutt card. Unless of course you're in the top .5% of Alpha males. As stated before, you can do what you want when u want then. Whole different ball game.

Thank you for that soul!!! I hope its not too late for my daughter's generation.

Side note, my daughters generation are growing up with only touch screens.
stop and think what these kids are going to be doing at 30-35!!!! Blows my mind

And you got that right sweetestgirl!!! My thought exactly

Also, I didn't think support, loyalty and sex were bad things. If two people click and have chemistry, neither one would stray. I think too often one or the other wants the person to fit their mold instead of just letting them go and look else where.

We already know everyone is different.

But this is straight talk ladies and I don't know why I'm doing it.

There are basically 4 types of relationship men. In general of course.

You have ***** boy, who does everything you say and your opinion is his opinion.

Then there is the insecure unfaithful guy. Hes good looking, nice job, has it all. But doesn't really feel good about himself unless hes screwing around. This guy wont tell you, but someone knows because that's part of his trip. His trip is to pretend hes a player.

Then you have loyal family good guy. Which is 95% of us if you would give it chance and stop with the lists of, height-weight. Job. Money. Blood line. What, am I at the combine again.

Then there is the Alpha male. Maybe .5% of men fall here. These are your pro athletes, musicians, Steve Jobs type and top surgeons. These cats can do anything if they want. And if you are on this site, I hates to say, no of us are in this category

Actually, look at josebeuno here. He seems like a loyal cat. Right Jose? Give him try.

I think dododavid a.k.a Alf hit this one out of the park.
Also, I'm sure you've heard Eminem and Rihana's, love the way you lie.
We don't tie just anyone to the bed post, nope, only the ones we love most!
So...you haven't found that guy that wants to tie you to the bed? Keep looking, hes out there somewhere.

Word Teddy!!! Have to have bank