rejoicing

I'm new and look to find help to make this happen in the best ways , like-minded "activity partners " ?? love you ladies ...

let me say that I love the thought of a woman putting it down and not afraid to "flex her sex" ( and wow I just thought of that ) and it's not only real ( and I would love to find them ) but it's natural too .. maybe not popular to say in the regular societies conversations ..
but on dating sites I love to hear that ....
my question is are they for real
and I have not been so lucky to find such a woman for sex only ...
I'm new to this online stuff and single now after 24 years of marriage.. ...

I'm new here and will like to say my opinion....
in my first reaction I am thinking of sexual desires, ones that are more thought of in fantasies perhaps ??
someone to play these things out with maybe ..
it by all means would be an activity, and one hell of an adventure if such a partner was found .......