6th of July, ooops

WOW you just joined on the 6th and you have a date already way to go, but be careful. It is good to meet in a public place the first time especially, never know what is lurking out there...

Oldsage did not know you had it in ya just have to find out won't ya

this is going to be hard for me but I am by no means any barbie doll, but I have lost alot of weight and then joined some different sites thinking I was looking for the love of my life. Now that I have had some dates I too am not sure what it is that guys are looking for . They say LTR, then they want to get you in bed, YIKES!!!!!!!! I did not loose all that weight to go directly to bed. I am now looking for friendship and build on that if it is indeed possible, although I have thought about putting the weight back on and hiding.....sick huh. But I want to be honest also.

thanks Kat, I think I am in the right place finally

TxsGal, words very well spoken, could not have said it better myself. I too am a widow and long for that companionship that I lost, only I never really had it with my husband. Always wanted it but it was never there for me. He was a workaholic and was constantly after the almighty dollar which we all know is never enough, and what good did it do him, he is gone at the age of 54. Money is good and necessary, but it is not the end all. I too want that feeling I do not think I have ever had in my life and somehow some way it will find me......at least that is what I am told. I am waiting.......

I found I got alot more attention when I showed a little more skin, than when I did not, yet it did not change who I was just the guys perception of who I was

Good morning, have wanted to get on one of these and just seem to miss it or something. Thought I would give this posting a try since I am sooooo new

Any one on yet, I have never joined in and I would like to say something