I've asked myself this very question. Two years after ending my long
term relationship with my college sweetheart, I wonder if love ever had
anything to do with the choices he and I made and will make in the
future.

Was it me? Was it him?

Here is a breakdown: Met first day of college, 18. Started dating
second week. Became extremely close quickly, he was a virgin (I was
not). Third year of relationship he cheats, I find out, actually catch
him several times, forgives. Senior year, trust is completely gone.
Graduate, things seem ok. We move in together, he cheats. Relationship
ends at 6 1/2 years. Two years later...we talk regularly, hang out at
least once a week intimately, he has other people he is seeing, so do I.

Hence, what does love got to do with it? I'm confused. Advice needed,
now.