Shy guys are the best. Why get over them?

Using alcohol may seen "teenage minded" however, alcohol does help to lower inhibitions which helps with breaking through that shyness factor that holds people back.

Drinking to excess and throwing yourself at the last guy standing at the bar just after last call...well...that's just bad.

But having a glass of wine and getting that warm belly buzz that causes you to have a genuine smile and a little color in your cheeks that might attract a man, well I don't see anything wrong with that.

And can I just say...that coffee...looks AMAZING!!! I'd kill for one of those right now!

That ain't coffee! That's Euro fru fru crap and there's nothing teenager about a good old fashioned Gin & Tonic!

I figure she's looking for serious dating, looking for a husband.
Not looking to date anyone whose not serious about a relationship.

all very good answers. in my last relationship, there was alot of yelling, mostly from her, but she was always able to convince me to stay. due to recent events though, i dont think i can be there for her anymore. its gotten a lil bit too hard, if i had had plenty of relationships before, i might have more know-how. but thats not the case.