Gotta horse and a dog. Last DWI I had was for Drinking With an Indian! It's country down here.

I vote for LHB, or Lex... I bet they have the most.

First off, if a man is going to cheat on you he is a whore, plain and simple. And there is nothing you can do about that except drop him like a hot potato and seek out the millions of us good men that constantly are clobbered over the head with the male whore prejudice thing.

I think one of the first things I look for in a woman is one that has taken care of herself, allowed God to heal her, and isn't assuming all men are whores.

Too many people run relationship to relationship using all of the emotions as extra-marital sex as a "quick fix" to the emotional dilemma of losing a person you loved. The thing to do is to grieve, cry, let it hurt, and get the heck OVER it.

Don't bring that junk into your next relationship.

Its not fair to the next person in your life to use them as if they are some kind of an emotional hospital.

Maybe read some literature on love addictions. Look in the mirror and do a reality check if you seem to run from relationship to relationship. When there is loss, the human psyche needs a portion of grieving and morning for that loss. That is natural, that is how God made us.

Then when you are over these issues, you MIGHT be ready to date again.

This is one of the first major turn-offs for me... if a woman starts stereo-typing men in a negative way, like assuming they are powerful enough to avoid being cheated on by all men by something they might do or not do. You do not have that much power over the situation, sorry. If the man is a whore, you just plain bad a crappy choice and you need to fess up. move on, grieve and get with the program.

I have never, will never and have never even once in my life of 47 years cheated on any woman I have been in a realtionship with. But on the other hand, every woman I have met and had a relationship with turned out to be a whore who couldn't keep her pants on. I have every reason to believe all women are whores as you infer all men are in your opening statement... but I know there are good... no... great women out there.

When you change how you are asking the question, and deal with your pesonal issues, you might just start becoming successful at just being yourself, and finding a man who loves you for you, not for somebody you are trying to make your self into... fake women are a total turn-off, too.

Just be real, be who you are, and find somebody who will love you on that level.

1. Supports her financial needs.
2. Is very communicative, in plain English.
3. Is genuinely cheery and happy.
4. Takes care of herself.
5. Enjoys my appreciation of her.
6. Can play pool well.
7. Knows that her mothering years are done, and is now enjoying the rest of life.
8. Is smarter, more talented, and better at many things than I am.
9. Will meet me halfway to wherever we both need to be in order to achieve our goals.

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