Nice humor!

Thanks for your comments - letting it go is just what goes through my mind since the beginning...
But your wrong when you say I want more than friendship... I believe in marriage / lasting relationships and I would never cheat or try to convince somebody to cheat or something like that...

Hi,
I met a really nice guy some weeks ago. From the being I knew he is newly-wed so this whole story is no love-thing. I just appreciated the talking we had and I'm really interested in building up a friendship. The problem ist that we met on a kind of professional basis and I'm not quiete sure if he's interested in a private contact. We exchanged some emails till then but eventhough we shared some private stuff he's always very polite and shortspoken - thinking it over you might say he just acts professional. Yesterday I read in another forum that his company tracks the email-contact... now I'm feeling very stupid about sharing any private stuff at all using his business-address... What should I do now? On one hand I really like to keep in touch with him but I don't want to put any pressure on him (company... wife...) and on the other hand I don't want to make a complete idiot out of myself just because he might only does his job in brilliant way. Why are relationships between human beings always that difficult? Or is that just me?

I think MADNESS are great but I also like The Specials!