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Keep him or just end it??
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Thanks CrystalFairy!
Amazing advice :) |
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Keep him or just end it??
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Only know this little bit you shared with us, but sounds to me like he's using you and/or is a lazy git. I don't get the impression he's about to change, so if you stay with him, you will indeed be with an immature man. Are you up for that? Going back to him cos you might not get another partner, or not easily, is the worst advice I've ever heard! It sounds like you are quite capable of taking care of yourself and your daughter. Maybe you should give him some sort of deadline: if he really wants you back, he's gotta do something about his life-style. Become financially self-supporting for starters. And you should be able to trust him, so this thing about dating-sites and stuff ... You think you can and will be able to ever trust him again? Still (and again, I only know the little bit you shared) it sounds more like a dump-him situation to me. Wishing you lots of wisdom! 
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Thanks everyone ...great advice so far! I am getting involved in a support group for people who are divorced and separated. that starts monday so we'll see how that goes!
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Keep him or just end it??
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Ok so i am legally separated from my husband. it has been two months and i live with my daughter who is not biologically his. He lives in his house currently. We separated after less than 2yrs of marriage and here is why.
1.He is not financially stable and cannot save money.. he has never had to really pay for any of our dates. I support him when i can financially to help make the truck payment.. and our cell phones. 2.I had major trust issues with him for over a year. He kept talking with ex gf's and would lie straight to my face when i would find incriminating evidence on him. The final blow was when he lied to me about the dating website he was on. I really do not think he has ever physically cheated though 3. Since our separation we have really been trying to work on our marriage..but he still has yet to take me out on a date without me paying for it. And i gave him like 200 dollars for the truck payment and he spent it over the weekend so we could go camping. No matter how hard i try... i just feel like i am in a situation where i am married to an immature boy and it is not ever going to change. not sure what the hell to do! i do love him.. but there is so much standing in our way |
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