thanks guy for your positive response. I don't know what I was thinking. If I had known that he was married prior to me being with him........it would have NEVER happened.

You guys are absolutely right. I'm getting the hell away from him. I'm lucky it was early in the relationship before the LOVE thing evolved. thx!

I was recently involved with a man (cop)who I later found out was recently married. He always denied the fact that he was involved with anyone or even married until I brought him to the table by finding out this info through public records. He has been married for less than a year now and is already cheating. We made love in his home and it was GREAT! My question to the guys is.......if a man go down on this other woman (other than his wife, does that mean that it's more than just a sex thing for that other woman and (perhaps feelings are involved) or could it be part of his love making. I mean to me, that is something sacred and should be shared with your signifcant other and not an outsider. We have been seeing each other for 2 months now. Someone please give me some advice. I really have feeligs for this guy.