I personally have come to see that most of us do the same things over and over wondering why we get the same result.

If you are having problems finding what your looking for you need to project the idea you have already found her. The power of positive thinking helps. You have to try your best to not ask for the same things that have not worked for you in the past. But do not go into it acting or feeling desperate, or those are the people you will call to you.

Speak confidently but not cockily about what it is you want and expect in a relationship. Just put it out to the universe and when the time is right, it will happen and draw the right person to you. Everything that is worth the effort takes time.

Good luck dear.

It is a fact that there is some pretty nasty scam artist from nigeria and every time you here of a fraud 7 out of 10 times it is coming from nigeria so yes dear it makes us a little more scared or less trusting of people from there. We are not trying to paint you with the same brush as all the scammers but we are a little more weary of people from your area. I am sorry you have to bare the burden, but as per usual it only takes one bad apple to spoil a bunch. Good luck in your search and do yourself a favor, do not come on to strong from the get go. That is always a dead give away and a turn off for most women here.