This isnt about swinging and neither of us are hopping into bed with everybody out there.

Looking at the number of marriages out there with one partner or the other cheating, I felt that this was a way to stop the lies and the jealousy. We are being open and honest about what is happening and it does not happen in the home. Yes, my daughter is a very bright girl, and what she sees is a mother and a father who love each other and get along with each other. Yes jealousy has come up, but when it has we have talked about why one of us is feeling that way and taken actions to correct that. I know that this is not a traditional relationship, but it is worth a try. The worst that could happen is things not work out and end in divorce. The best is that both of us are happier and and can raise our daughter together without worrying about how shipping her back and forth is going to affect her.

We have a child and right now it is less of an impact on her to try this than going through a divorce and shipping her between two houses. My wife and I are not arguing or fighting. We are getting along better now than in a long while. There is also finacial things to consider, especially the way things are now with the economy.