Are we all having the same kind of day today? Or is it just me?

I am 21 and a full-time mother and student. I can't tell you how many guys that I've met that seem great until I let them know that I have a son. I was actually told that I was a ghetto chick who probably depended on the welfare system to take care of my child. Then they ask if the father is around and I say no because I'm honest and things seem to fall apart more then ever. Let me say this...I am not ghetto and I do NOT depend on welfare for anything. I hold my own for myself and my son. Maybe I'm just not attractive enough and the men use my child to just get away from me. Or maybe the guys that try to talk to me are ignorant and are missing out on a great woman like me (don't mean to toot my own horn but toot toot!) What do you guys (and girls) think about this situation?

Ahhhh..all these positive quotes are making me feel so pretty.

Never settle for anything less then what you want. I see that you're looking for a man that's deep, considerate and creatively romantic. They are out there, just not as visible as the ones that spend all their time chasing girls.

(Puts down axe, that is dripping with blood) Ummmmmm...you were saying?

about the people in your past...there has got to be a reason they didn't make it to your future!

If you can't pay for the crime, don't do it. Only rich people can lie, steal, cheat, and still win.

well have fun. where are ya stationed?

Are you referring to me? I am not dating anyone let alone a married/separated man.

Hey ya'll in Ga! i aint lookin to get laid im just lookin to hang out and if it comes to that it does. Im at a point where i just dont care i just need a good shoulder to land on. Preferably in the Columbus Ft. Benning area.


Thank ya
Will

You're datable. Some girls are very picky about the divorce being final and that's their right. I'm not. I would date a guy who's divorce wasn't final as long as it was in progress.