Navygirl, it'd be a heck of a drive, but I'd take you out. If you didn't mind a former enlisted. I might be worried about you kicking my butt though, judging by the weights you're lifting

Happy birthday from a Navet. Migraines are the worst. I've suffered from them for 42 years now. Brain radiation (cancer treatment) will get rid of them permanently, did for my mom. Screws up everything else though, so not your best alternative. I use Maxalt MLT, which has no side effects on me. Otherwise I love an icepack or cold compress. You probably have tried all the remedies though. Hope you feel batter. Or take a raincheck and celebrate tomorrow.

I understand preferences. But it just struck me as odd. These women have children. "honey, meet my boyfriend. You may have known him. He was a senior when you were a freshman." Just seems weird to me. But especially when you won't look at a guy 2 years older. I'm not offended. Just think it's odd.

Heck, the woman that most intrigues me here, is 4 years older than me give or take. There were a couple of key things in her profile, and one in particular that most people wouldn't even pick up on. Hopefully she will respond, but it says she hasn't been here in over a month. So that could mean years, for that matter. I'll give it a little time before I contact someone else.

But I digress.

I have, for many years now, called myself a deist leaning agnostic. I consider the possibility of some being that created all this. But if so, I don't think he's paying any attention to us, has any influence over us or listens to nor answers prayers. No grand plan.

I'm a deist leaning agnostic. As long as she knows and accepts that, sure, I would date her. I used to be married to one. I probably wouldn't be able to get along with a real holy roller or Bible thumper though. Or maybe she wouldn't be able to get along with me.

If you're ballsy invite them in for bourbon and porn. Ha-ha. I've never been that ballsy though. I'm generally polite, but send them on their way. I often just don't go to the door.

Wow. I haven't got time to make that kind of list.

I'm a little baffled. I've seen profiles by women in their late 40's, 47 or 48. And it says to contact them you must be 35 to 49. So you will date a man 13 years younger, but not 2 years older than you? It's just not what I expected.

My rule of thumb is that punctuation is your friend. Nothing worse than an entire paragraph with no punctuation whatsoever and no caps.

30 pounds to lose to get where? To get rail thin? I like a woman with curves. I think it's subjective. Some guys like curves, some like skinny, etc. I don't want flabby or lumpy, though there are guys for that too. Tone a bit, realizing our age though, and that you've probably had kids.

So the guy with prostate cancer couldn't have sex. And your wife went through menopause and doesn't want sex. Has no one heard of oral or manual stimulation? There are lots of things to do that don't involve intercourse, to satisfy your mate. Maybe you should talk to your wife about that. Be willing to experiment. Get kinky.