Good post and I like your attitude.

"fluff"....? is that the new word for it now???

So who here is into sci-fi?

i mean someone you wouldnt normally date or even think about messing with, and you get drunk and you get stupid.

I see so many profiles of men discouraging "fluffy" women from contacting them. I realize that we all have preferences and it's not a bad thing to have a deal breaker over weight issues.......however......isn't there anyone out there who has an open mind concerning the size of a person? I'm a large gal but I run circles around my small friends....lol.
Phat people need love too!!!!

I'm handsome

are ya done yet?

Hey Lady feral,

I just joined your matchmaker game... waiting for you to work your magic...

So they say the first step is to admit you have a problem right? SO now what? besides pervishness can't be all bad right?????

Trust me, they make me blush!

I won't be me it'll be the rest of the freaks on here (namely the ladies).

You have to release the inner perv, don't be shy.

ive had a lot of long distance relationships.

ive been saying i wont do another. but now im having doubts. im thinking if hes a good man and you can trust him then why not.

one reason im skeptical is because i cant relocate and im afraid if i got into one and he cant relocate and i cant it'd hurt when it ends you know?

i'm in a long distance relationship, and have been for over two years.

i'm in toronto, and he's in west texas. it isn't the easiest place to travel to (nor the prettiest, haha). neither is it cheap. we don't see each other nearly as much as we'd both like, but somehow we manage to do quite well.

neither of us live our lives with any expectations, and most certainly don't within the relationship. i don't know where we will be this time next year, next month or even next week. but i do know that for today i am in love with him, and he with me and i don't anticipate tomorrow being any different than today.

with neither one of us currently in a position to move, yet still very much in love with each other, we take what is given each day and enjoy it for what it is. i once said to him that all i wanted was a dance and that the rest - if any - would just be icing on the cake. well i'm still eating, haha. i would rather be with this man, and see him way too infrequently, than be with anyone else, and get to see them all the time.

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we did meet online, not on this site but a similar one. i don't believe that either one of us were actually looking for a relationship, especially one of the long distance kind (i know i certainly wasn't).

if he'd have written to me out of the blue and talked about getting together, etc., i doubt i would have said yes - it would have just seemed insurmountable i guess, and quite a bit bizarre to want to get involved with someone that far away.

we were both forum posters; almost from the day that i first began to post, was the day he made a re-appearance (from one of his many bans haha); if that doesn't sound like it was pre-destined, i don't know what does.

i noticed him almost right away, the wit, the humour, the grace and the intelligence. it didn't take me long to find something to write to him about and the rest, as they say, is history.

i don't think you get to pick with whom you fall in love. it all falls into place in the exact manner in which it was intended.