Ruth, you are so funny!

Will someone pwweeeeese explaine that comment to me? totally clueless here.

I hope that I am as wise as you are! OG help.

Well, I think that an intelligent man would weigh my reasons for suggesting such a thing. I dated a guy that worked 1/2 the year. He didn't have any money but he had all the time in the world...Too much difference in our schedules.

A guy contacted me from here who said he "is trying" to collect S.S. because he hurt is knee. Well, why would I want to go out with him? My profile clearly states that I like to do things...parks, sports, activities.

excuse me, but I don't really want the last word here!

I think that I have to accept being single for the rest of my life. I do hope that I will meet someone to keep me company along this life's journey, but I'm thinking that I want too much, or have set the mark too high. And someone told me, not to settle for less, that hit home with me, and I haven't been able to shake that thought either. I caught myself writing a comment on a post and basically discribed what my expectations are. This is a repost from one of my earlier comments, I had to write it out, why do I think that I am single? " I think I'm still single because I'm pickie. He has to have a job and go to work at least 5 times a week. He can't be jealous of me or anything in my life. He can't be critical of me in any way. He can't flirt with other women. He has to like to travel. He has to be generous (but of course, within reason.) He has to be a gentleman, I'm rather old fashioned, I like my doors opened for me. It shows me that he is trying to make me feel comfortable and that he wants to be kind to me. I guess I will be single for a LONGGGGGGGG TIme.................." I'm giving up on true love.

honestly, I was fooled by his PHD; however, all book learning and no common sense.

Welcome to the club baby... we have martini's on Thursday..

Ya, you were right screw that.

That is a very tempting offer !!!!

No! & I wish I hadn't given him my work phone #

Wow, another nice comment! I totally agree with you, Why did he pick that place? That was the constant thought running through my head all through the dinner...I felt like he set me up! I'm so angry with him. And you know, I noticed that he ate amost nothing!

Yes, I Did! I asked him to quit talking so loudly and to stop following me...(hint hint--but he continued to follow....)

Yes, I already knew that he is a health food (nut) and I can deal with that, it's a good thing, however....the controlling part....yuck!

I know, I won't give him another chance to insult me like that. The night had a bad ending, however, I kind of lost my temper saying good night.

Welcome to the club baby... we have martini's on Thursday..

Ya, you were right screw that.


Thank you!

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Oh Yeah ! lol!

Last night I met the nicest guy. We went out to dinner. I proceeded to fill my plate at the chinese buffet. He followed me, close at my heels, dictating to me what I should select. At first, I thought it was fun. But then he would say, no, that has too much fat, soy, salt, it's fried, too this too that...My right to choose what I like to eat was being dictated by this overbearing man who must have thought that I was too dim-witted to make my own food choices. I put up with his unwelcome advice all through dinner and then I made him pay for the tip and the dinner. Usually, I offer to pay my portion. Not this time! I was very upset by his remarks at dinner. Was I right?