I can feel for your situation of being alone but no excuses as to the fact that it is your own doing. There are groups that will help you... get you counceling and help you during and after the baby. I commend you on your choice to not abort and yes I know many very very stable families would love to adopt a baby that can not have one. Check the adoption agencies they can not only give you some very solid advise but also support.

I wish you the best of luck... A long road you have ahead. OH.. and their are other options to the shot for birthcontrol.

wow.... see what happens whrn you give a child drugs at an early age... shesh... JKJK....

I have teens... If I am seeing someone for more then a few dates they will make a point of being butts. I try and keep it seperate for a long while but that is not always possible. I love my kids and it is a must to put them first but when do you know if they are truly being selfish or they see something I dont in a person?

My youngest is 12 so I have a few years left

Wow.. actuly that is a bit scary.