Happy 39th

❤ Happy Birthday Tess

Your expectations have started exceeding reality.

And you are refusing to take that leap of faith .... faith in yourself for making it happen !!!!

Here she is

I don't think it's impossible, but I do think it gets much more difficult as we get older. We become much more selective about the kinds of people we are interested in, and more picky about what we are willing to tolerate. Even when we do find someone completely amazing, it's not always easy to meld two lives in a compatible way. If both are independent people, it takes a lot of work, commitment and compromise.

Why is that?

why let ur husband treat you poorly of all people?? somex they treat you bad because you let them treat you bad..
i am a single mom and yes it is hard but nothing harder than to live unhappy and unsatisfied with someone who' s not worthy of you.

Well, first thought is to climb out of this miry clay of a pit I put myself in. Also to elevate above all the infedelity that I allowed myself to endure. I am in the process of rebuilding myself and getting closer to loving self. I know down deep in my heart that I'm not ready for another serious relationship. but would love to have companionship to help get my mind off of what eats at me everyday. I know I have to forgive myself and thank the person who chose infedelity. I lost myself in the midst of a 6 year marriage. Now that I have come to terms and accepted that I was wrong, it's time to move on. I'm feeling heartbroken and trying to figure out what step to take first. While the other half is continually having fun. I was pushed away from a roof over my head, wheels under my feet to a house that doesn't have water and a couch full of dog hair that makes me itch like crazy during the night. I toss and turn and stay up late hours of the night missing the comfort of my bed. Then start thinking about my kids not having to witness this homelessness and loneliness that their dad is experiencing. I left everything! But now it's time to rebuild and do things differently. by starting off and making friends. instead of jumping head first into false hope relationships. Feel free to give advice.

Welcome to the Playground Tess,

Men wanna see YOUR million shilling smile;

And gleaming mesmerizingly hypnotic eyes;

Cause that is what they will see the rest of YOUR LIVES.

Regarding YOUR profile text: Imagine YOU are sitting across from the most natural conversationalist YOU have ever known......type in YOUR answers to their questions.

ONE VERY GOOD REASON IS MEN DO NOT WANT TO RAISE ANOTHER MAN'S

CHILDREN. I TRIED IT, IS A LOT TO ASK. LOT OF DISTRACTIONS FROM

WORKING ON YOU AND YOUR MATES RELATIONSHIP WHEN THIRD PERSON IS

INVOLVED. SOMETIMES IT HARD ENOUGH TRYING TO ''BE THERE'' FOR YOUR

MATE WHEN YOU HAVE ANOTHER COMPETING FOR YOUR TIME....IT TAKES TWO

VERY SPECIAL PEOPLE WORKING TOGETHER TO MAKE IT WORK....

Tess
Tess your pics are very pretty
You just need to talk more about your self

It's simple because men want to control especially older men why are so many this type of relationship older men younger women,the true is even me I don't understand why men go for younger women instead of an older independent women who don't seek money,younger women empty your pocket even mentally irritated you,, I want that, I want to go there etc'',they think they are alpha if they have a younger woman but they are not know how silly are.

It is not too bad, but I would recommend using your 2nd, or 4th picture as your profile picture. Some more details about you might be nice as well, although not critical.

Hi Tess

Welcome to Mingle2.

Although you have something written it doesn’t tell us anything about you as a person. Write about things that float your boat and things that would give us a better idea of who you are otherwise how would others know if they would be compatible? Write also about the type of person you’re seeking.

Good luck.