The problem with you young kids today you don't keep it in your paints long enough, be friends, first for a long time even if it hurts you, you can always use your hand to take care of yourself, its a bad enougb sin to use our hands for pleasure, but when you get Intimate haveing sex, its all too late because now your emotionally attached , this is called a strong hold, and when you get attached to the wrong woman its hell.
You will find your self saying, oh boy I should have not given into my sexual desire
With this woman, we sell our souls to satin when we do this so please try to just be friends for a long time and make shore that friend give something to that friendship.
After 6 years how do you think I feel lol ?
I want and need a woman, but now I only want her for companionship, when love and sex die, companionship will always last.
Get a guitar and play it, get your mind off weman for love and Intimacy, 90% of weman just want to use men my friend, but if you find one that is willing to have the willpower to just be real friends and companionship, don't screw it up with haveing sex. Sex give woman the lisence
To use men and trash us, and in realitey there not worth haveing our heart.
Your young, God bless you.

I have been single for 6 years because all these weman out here programed by there parents when they were young that a man is supposed to do this and that for a woman, we are not robots controled by customs and traditions, we are motivated by our hearts to give someone something
Unconditionally, if your dealing with a woman of proper values and morals she will meet you half way in almost everything,
If she has you paying for everything without
Offering something dump her, you will never have respect and balance if you don't Insist that she helps you out financially, this has nothing to do with ego or pride, it has to do with your life and future, reciprocation of money can be a very good tool when finding out were a womans head is at, don't think any less of you self, us men need to have this balance, and if she dosnt agree with you, then you know who she really is, be very carefully of weman who hide behind ******** customs and traditions.
Now you have the formula and wisdom I gave you, so use it, tell her you don't have enough money for dinner and ask her if you can go dutch, if she says oh no a man is supposed to pay for a woman, then gaurd your heart from her and just have a good time, but use a rubber ok Dude.

I had a baby and then my girl needed a house and then everything became so much more complacated, be carefull weman have premeditative motive to get what they want and then after they get the baby and you have arguments, she will find another man to replace you, trust me on this one, weman sell men out for somone else when there relationship goes south.
Always be reciprocateing friends first because when the woman brings something to the table, then you know there is respect and balance, You must have balance in the friendship Or your loveing relationship will suffer with unbalance.
I wrote a book after getting used and hurt by weman.