Whst u mentioned, I have experienced that too. Some say they are Christian but not living the lifestyle of one

Amen..i understand where you're coming from

To Dodo_David

I hear what you're saying and maybe I didn't make myself clear: I don't expect someone to believe exactly the same way I belive who is a Christian: we all have our own interpretations depending on our Biblical teachings, experiences, etc. I was talking about being someone who does not believe in the basics of Christianity like I do like the Holy Trinity, or even that there is one true God period (creator of everything).

Yes priorities make a big difference and the person who may not believe what I believe to be willing to just start going to church service. One step at a time is workable for me too

I have learned through trial and error, post divorce, that a relationship beyond aquaintances or friendship cannot go forward with someone who does not believe what I believe. The Bible mentions how we should not be unequally yoked in relationships and that is so TRUE. I desire a mate who won't trip when its time to pay tithes, who will pray for and with me; and still know how to hold it down in the streets and take of his home (legally)..and of course the physical attraction needs to be there. But there is something about a Man Of God...now that's sexy