Maturity is the key here sweetie. Guys and gals alike think they are ready for a committed relationship but that's not always the case. We some times find our selves dating and forgetting to have fun with it. The first meeting is important only because we just want to make sure that is the person we saw in the photo. If we are not so lucky as to fall in love at first sight then we sharply move to the next option, are they worth a second date? and if that works out nature should take over. But remember if it feels like a job and not a joy or if it aggravating and not inspiring with in the first few weeks then remember the saying about fish and oceans.