Thanks for all the advice. It really helped. I'm going to be friends with the first girl for now and maybe down the road it will go on to something but I'm young and I'm just going to have fun right now.

I've never discussed with the first girl what we are. She's really indecisive and innocent so i have trouble bringing up topics like that. i'm not sure why. She's definitely marriage material though. I'm just not sure if see myself falling in love with her any time soon. and she sees marriage as a couple years down the road. I don't know if i can wait that long.

I'm just looking for a little relationship advice because I have a small issue that I'm not completely sure how to handle. Please read all before you judge me.

I have been dating a really cool girl for a little while and everythings good except one thing. She's waiting until marriage for sex. I completely respect her for this, but it's not my thing. I've had sex before and I see myself as a very sexual person. I've been honest to her about most things but I haven't been able to talk to her about this. She seems very much like a people pleaser and I feel that if I bring this up it will seem as if I'm pressuring her into something she doesn't want to do. At the same time, I feel like it will be shallow to end it just because she won't have sex with me. I haven't had sex since we've been dating and it's been getting very difficult. Recently I met a girl who is very sexual and I like talking to her but I feel like this will lead to something sexual between us.

So here's where I'm unsure. Do I end it with the first girl and just have fun with the second girl and possibly others, stick with the first girl and try to talk to her about it, or stick with the first girl and just have some NSA fun with the second girl without telling the first girl?

I'm open to any and all advice.