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Thu 08/15/13 04:51 AM
Mingle is the same catastrophe as AFF or POF os something where its free of charge to flirt...

I think there are 95% scammers and fakes around - so its really not fun to be here...

My experiences: well, met 2 lovely ladies but not in real yet - well see where the contacts might lead to - probably one soon day coming Ive to decide ...


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Thu 08/08/13 08:50 AM
Well, as a lot of people not only here posted that its up to each couple my personal experiences are:

If making lave wont work with all kind of satisfaction you need from that than a relationship wont work, too!

Having sex is different - its just "in & out - bye" ... in 90% its part of the men during ONS or with prostitutes doing so ... its also seen from the genes as well as from the history of mankind...

I have had "my first time" when I was 15 with my first love - we both enjoyed discovering our bodies a lot - but didnt thought about marriage in those following two years relationship - just enjoying us, you know?

Later when I met my wife we tried everything "normal" in bed (not that rage hard stuff or such things for toilet or sm) - we enjoyed all that and then after 3 years I asked her to marry me - we now got 2 beautiful children (a girl, 6 and a boy, 3 y.o.) but are divorced since 1,5 years - and that has nothing to do with matching in making love or not... although she reduced it a lot - but .. however, guys, I think you need to learn ALL about your potential new lover and part of your life before you finally say "YES" to eachother!

Guys, by the way, making love for hours and hours is best a couple can enjoy every day - so dont say "NO" to sex before marriage...

Good luck for all of you!