Yep. I have too.

if the topic is interesting, or if someone gets controversial I like to throw in my 2 cents. I don't even open discussions about say, jello

the right odor is quite the opposite....
biggest turn-off? closed mind and religious fanaticism (they're almost the same, I know)

Well, usually, in marriage, you are supposed to work through the unhappiness and be comitted to the idea of marriage even more than the person. It depends on why you are so unhappy, how long you have been, and what you have tried to do to get past it. The whole marriage institution is in shambles anymore; it's sad. But I was in an unhappy marriage tried to work on it for 3 years . But my heart wasn't in it, and my husband didn't put much effort into fixing it, either. It ended and I think it is for the best. Guilt still lingers to this day, though, I think it's part of the deal.