It is difficult enough to find a date these days.
If you get one, on first meet you would know right away if there is chemistry between you and them.

If chemistry is there, go for a second meet, which would be considered a date.

If there is no chemistry and you couldn't see yourself holding hands with this person... Run and never look back.



I don't date more than one although it is a good thought. There are dating coaching that recommend it for women as women tend to attach and get committed too soon. But then this is recommended by US coaches and although I do agree up to a point with it, Dutch people aren't like Americans, meaning Dutch men aren't either.

However, I don't and can't date more than one for the reasons these coaches give. I invest when I date someone for an extended period of time. And I have indeed paid a steep price when it turned out that I was invested and committed, but the man wasn't. So there is a good reason for what is called circular dating. I find it difficult to do though.

hi im new here how is every1 goin