Hello there. I've been on here, off and on, for some months now and have had only a very few replies to any of my messages.

Some who have replied state that they can't see any photo's, yet I've had two photo's set up for some months now. I'm wondering whether or not there is some setting that isn't correct. I've sent a message to Support around 3 days ago but am still waiting on some reply.

Can you see my photo's? Is there anything that I should be doing more (or less) of in my profile?

I keep getting heaps of overseas likes but very few actually look at my profile and many of the replies are from ladies who are under 30, which isn't really relevant to me, being 60.

Even when some local ladies do look at my profile, they don't reply to me when I message them, although sometimes they have another look at my profile. This is an exercise in frustration.

Thanks very much for the reply and information, Di.

I hope it's okay to tack my own query onto the end of this, seeing it's a bit similar.

I have two photo's downloaded. They have been there for some considerable time now and I can see them...

... but... I've had a lady respond to me and she says I don't have any photo's that she can see. Is there a setting that I might not have correct or something that is causing this? I could be missing out on meeting the right lady for me because of this.

I'm not a paying member. Does that have something to do with it? I would not have thought it should.

Please have a look at my profile. Kindly also confirm that you can see the photo's, as a lady I'm currently talking with said she can't see them. I'm wondering if there is a setting somewhere that I've got wrong. I'm not terribly tech savvy, to be honest.

Thanks in advance.

I joined because I drank too much that night.... Oh... and the voices in my head as well...

I just can't understand why no one is contacting me...

Aside from all the ladies from overseas, that is.

Totally agree with you. Wow... you look just like George Negus... You will probably only get that if you are an Aussie, of course.

I've seen your post and also noticed first off when you joined a few days ago, Tusk. I just wish you were living North of the Brissy River instead of the Gold Coast. The traffic between where you are and where I am in Burpengary is horrendous, usually... of course, I'm 60 (my REAL age), so a young at heart 50 y.o. might not be interested in me anyway.

Ah well... C'est la vie. Good luck with your search and I hope you find someone really special, just as I hope I do too.