Lookingup1246


Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/25/13 10:01 PM Topic: Finding LOVE??
If you have love in your heart and are capable of expressing it, it will come back to you. Knowing how to love is more important, "than finding love" thats not how it works, you are filled with love that shines through and shows in everything you do and people want to be near you, because they see the reflection of love in your eyes snd they feel safe enough to explore!

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/25/13 08:40 AM Topic: Man Rules
I agree with all of these except ....no and yes are not good answers, if i wanted someone who never spoke and couldn't carry on conversations, i would find something temporary.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/25/13 08:14 AM Topic: A woman's obsession to look slim
I am curvy, still tucking in my shirt but could stand to lose 10 lbs. I walk up and down stairs all day so i have some muscle tone in the right places. I look at men with a healthy body, they could have 20lbs extra but more than that I may consider them a heart attack waiting to happen. Since I am a widow, i want my next relationship to last way into my retirement years. I dont pick men too much they pick me, which has it's downfalls.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Sun 04/21/13 10:12 PM Topic: Should you Lie? Edited by Lookingup1246 on Sun 04/21/13 10:13 PM
That is a cool cat, i have a dog with a spotted black and pink tongue and nose it is the weirdest thing i have ever seen.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Sun 04/21/13 09:53 PM Topic: what do you fantasize about a relationship??
Sleeping in one of those end of the doc grass cabanas, during a full moon, that would include a private midnight swim during the evening, with the sound of the waves hitting the shore.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Sun 04/21/13 04:43 PM Topic: WHAT ARE YOU READING NOW - part 2
"Crossroads",by Wm Paul Young

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Sun 04/21/13 02:29 PM Topic: Should you Lie?
I would probably accept his apology, but i would still hide my purse and feel distrust in someway because it is the act of feeling entitled to take something from someone else no matter what the circumstance is that makes me distrustful, not the loss. I know to some this may sound self righteous and maybe it is, but i dont take other peoples things.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Sun 04/21/13 02:24 PM Topic: Should you Lie?
Although some women talk about their guys mistakes not all of them do. Talking about someone ripping you off, and some guy being a jerk are 2 different things. If someone rips me off i will hide my purse from them, no matter if they give it back or not, because this establishes a lack of training and boundries. What if the person in question that rips you off, Gives you a song and dance routine. About how they needed to feed their children and how tearfully apologetic they are? That they'll never do it again. If they get on a woman's soft side she might just change her opinion of the perp. I have seen it happen in different circumstances.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Sun 04/21/13 02:06 PM Topic: Dear GOD....
DearGod thank you for helping me to stay warm for another day!

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Fri 04/19/13 09:37 AM Topic: What example do you set? Edited by Lookingup1246 on Fri 04/19/13 09:39 AM
It depends on who is watching i suppose, i am very caring and lOving from what i have been told but at work i am also kind of anal when it comes to medical details. Mostly i am a whole plugger and a mail carrier for example: i tend to want to fix things, i am also super dependable.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Fri 04/19/13 09:29 AM Topic: Should you Lie?
Although some women talk about their guys mistakes not all of them do. Talking about someone ripping you off, and some guy being a jerk are 2 different things. If someone rips me off i will hide my purse from them, no matter if they give it back or not, because this establishes a lack of training and boundries.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Fri 04/19/13 09:07 AM Topic: Desperately need advice
You have given this guy 11 years of your life, he is still keeping someone else on the backburner. Relationships do survive on a zig zag curve, but life does not, you are unhappy and will continue to be unhappy until you either lose the chap or reconcile tobput up with his behavior. Would you do this to someone else? Why do you deserve less than what you would offer someone?

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/18/13 08:56 PM Topic: Broken into pieces
You need time to heal, try to be kind to yourself and try not to expect too much right away.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/18/13 08:48 PM Topic: New view of depression?
N many areas it is hard to tell, if people are depressed 1st and look at the world through negative glasses or if they have self esteem issues and than become depressed. Always a question of who came first, the chicken or the egg?

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/18/13 08:43 PM Topic: New view of depression?
One of the huge things that I have realized, through working with depressed people is they all have one thing in common, and that is they have wrong perceptions about how other people feel about them, and how they negatively perceive their value in many areas. Part of what needs to happen is they need to get out of their own way and focus on doing something good for someone else, which seems to help in many ways.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/18/13 08:20 PM Topic: How Old are You?
My enthusiasm is that of a 16 year old, my spirit is 2, and my soul is 2000. However my health age is 44, which is almost 10 years younger than my chronological age, Except for my knees sometimes feel 10 years older, but I don't pay attention to that.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/18/13 08:14 PM Topic: How Old are You?
I hope your birthday was fun

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/18/13 08:13 PM Topic: How Old are You?
I am 56 today. Happy birthday to me.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/18/13 07:53 PM Topic: Should you Lie?
You are talking about girls not women, women know who they are and how they feel.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 04/18/13 07:50 PM Topic: Should you Lie?
One of the questions to consider is: is this a health or safety issue? Is it a matter of opinion? If so why burden someone else with your personal opinion if it is negative, it is only negative for you at this moment. Do I have enough facts to even make a comment? I also should point out, It has been my experience. That many women's opinions seem to fluctuate with the emotions they feel at the moment in question. Iv'e also taken note that their emotions can change at the drop of a hat. Depending how they feel. Men operate completely differently, Men are logical thinkers by nature. Our decisions/opinions are mostly made by logical thinking. As opposed to how we feel with regards to certain exceptions. So your comment above as to how the opinion is only negative at the moment. Would be better applied to a womans way of thinking.

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