That is exactly what I thought. I told her that and she thought I was completely crazy I was just wondering what other people were thinking on this one.

Ok I have this guy friend. Well actually he was a friend of my ex and well needless to say that my ex burned both of us. Well anyways we have been talking over a year and it is just "friends stuff" nothing else. Well we met up on the 4th just to hang out his parents even stopped by. Then him and I went and got lunch. However he picked up the check. Once I told my friend about this she automatically started telling me that it sounded like a date. But I find that hard to beleive it was just a normal lunch nothing went anywhere. I mean in my mind it was kind of a fair trade even though that is not what I was expecting him to do since I did drive into town to get food. I dont know. What do you guys think. We have never had a "more then friends" type of coversation or anything.



Thanks everyone! I just wanted to make sure I wasnt going crazy. I know I haven't dated in over 4 years so I was starting to doubht my common sense in this whole thing.I am not crazy ! yay me!

How can you be tired of grilling? That is just crazy talk! But for any get togethers taco dip is always a hit. YUMMY!

Thanks for clarifing (however that is spelt.)

I know how that is. This one girl i know was like that. I mean I was even in her wedding. I helped her pick out her wedding dress and everything. The next thing I know I get pregnant and she wants nothing to do with me. Later I find out from some other friends who had kids she did the same thing to. Obviously she wasnt that good of a friend.

So for those of you have met someone from online in person. What things instantly turn you off on any possiblity of anything in the future. I am just curious at what everyone thinks on this one. I mean I would be upset if they didnt look like the pictures that I saw...what about you?

Hey I know what you are talking about. Like my dad tells me "If there wasnt bad luck you wouldnt have any luck at all". Isn't my dad so motivating! Makes a daughter feel awesome!

So are you possibly forum stalking me? I think this is a new one.

I want to be able to find someone that I can share the awesome moments in my life. Someone who I can turn to when something bad has happened and cry on their shoulder. Someone who I can make memories with. I would hope I could do the same for someone also.

I have no freaking clue. lol

I didnt mean for it to sound like you were being negative about it I was just curious as to what people thought about it.

This is so true. Why is it that?

Someone made a comment on this forum that I must be innocent. Well I am very innocent. It brings up the question is that a good thing or a bad thing when getting into a relationship with one. The comment that was made about me made me ask myself this question. My personal thought was that innocence is a good thing. I may be wrong?

Like is it a turnoff for guys or something? Like in my case it isn't the virginity card because I do have a kid but just one whom has not really "been around" if you know what I mean. It is like the innocence mixed with shyness? I do not know if that makes any sense.

I may have a child however I am more innocent then you know.

I am afraid to ask

Honesty
Trustworthy
and moola....haha j/k on the third one. I would have to say he would have to be faithful.

My weekend was quite busy also. I am just dreading going back to work tomorrow.

Its because those of us whom take pictures of ourselves dont want to feel like a dork and ask someone else to do it so we can put it online. lol I have no clue.