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Edited by
amber030583
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Wed 07/09/08 07:50 PM
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Ok I have this guy friend. Well actually he was a friend of my ex and well needless to say that my ex burned both of us. Well anyways we have been talking over a year and it is just "friends stuff" nothing else. Well we met up on the 4th just to hang out his parents even stopped by. Then him and I went and got lunch. However he picked up the check. Once I told my friend about this she automatically started telling me that it sounded like a date. But I find that hard to beleive it was just a normal lunch nothing went anywhere. I mean in my mind it was kind of a fair trade even though that is not what I was expecting him to do since I did drive into town to get food. I dont know. What do you guys think. We have never had a "more then friends" type of coversation or anything.
Thanks everyone! I just wanted to make sure I wasnt going crazy. I know I haven't dated in over 4 years so I was starting to doubht my common sense in this whole thing.I am not crazy ! yay me! |
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Ok I have this guy friend. Well actually he was a friend of my ex and well needless to say that my ex burned both of us. Well anyways we have been talking over a year and it is just "friends stuff" nothing else. Well we met up on the 4th just to hang out his parents even stopped by. Then him and I went and got lunch. However he picked up the check. Once I told my friend about this she automatically started telling me that it sounded like a date. But I find that hard to beleive it was just a normal lunch nothing went anywhere. I mean in my mind it was kind of a fair trade even though that is not what I was expecting him to do since I did drive into town to get food. I dont know. What do you guys think. We have never had a "more then friends" type of coversation or anything. If you don't consider it a date, then it's not a date. Who cares what anybody else thinks it was. I think she was reading way too much into it. 
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Ok I have this guy friend. Well actually he was a friend of my ex and well needless to say that my ex burned both of us. Well anyways we have been talking over a year and it is just "friends stuff" nothing else. Well we met up on the 4th just to hang out his parents even stopped by. Then him and I went and got lunch. However he picked up the check. Once I told my friend about this she automatically started telling me that it sounded like a date. But I find that hard to beleive it was just a normal lunch nothing went anywhere. I mean in my mind it was kind of a fair trade even though that is not what I was expecting him to do since I did drive into town to get food. I dont know. What do you guys think. We have never had a "more then friends" type of coversation or anything. How about you ask him instead of us. |
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Depends completely on how he acted and the impression you got from it. I buy lunch for my female friends all the time, doesn't mean anything. If I wanted it to mean something I would say something like "Let me get this one for you" or anything that would draw attention to it.
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only you and him know what really went on...
whats the big deal if you and him had lunch and he picked up the tab? doesn't mean a date at all... now if you two had said "THIS IS A DATE" then it would be... |
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That is exactly what I thought. I told her that and she thought I was completely crazy I was just wondering what other people were thinking on this one.
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just because he bought you lunch doesnt mean its a date.. i buy lunch for my friends and they have been known to buy me lunch.. its no big deal.. friends do that kinda thing
i think your friend is reading waaaay too much into it |
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I kiss on the check and hug my close female friends it means no more than I care and love your friendship...
Some guys are not able see beyond the opportunity for sex so only you and he knows...... But the fact you ask this question I wonder what is in your heart?????? 
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Just because he picked up the check does not constitute a date.MHO
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just because he bought you lunch doesnt mean its a date.. i buy lunch for my friends and they have been known to buy me lunch.. its no big deal.. friends do that kinda thing i think your friend is reading waaaay too much into it exactly....I just wanted to make sure that I wasnt crazy. Since I haven't dated in over four years I was starting to doubht my common sense. |
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just because he bought you lunch doesnt mean its a date.. i buy lunch for my friends and they have been known to buy me lunch.. its no big deal.. friends do that kinda thing i think your friend is reading waaaay too much into it exactly....I just wanted to make sure that I wasnt crazy. Since I haven't dated in over four years I was starting to doubht my common sense. |
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If I was asking this question on here about a friend it would be because I was hoping there was something more than "just friends".
Otherwise I would have told my friend they were wrong and forgotten about it.JMO |
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I think it was just lunch with a friend who happened to be nice and pick up the check.
Next time, maybe you get the check. Its just among friends. |
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if he didn't demand sex for picking up the check...then it wasn't a date....
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