yes you definately tell him.. and although a month may not be that long.. whos to say he isnt genuine with his feelings.. do it.. but do it honestly and explain to him why..

Tell him its over and that he should get some rogaine to retain the hair on his new girlfreind hairy palm.

lmao.. you have the best advice.....

sounds like a game going on.. I wouldnt call him.. go on with your life.. it hes interested he will call.. and when he does.. explain how you feel to him.. I didnt look at your age but let me just say this... dont play games.. it may be a little fun at first.. but it gets old real quick and game players never end up together.. thats JMO

Ill tell ya what.. tonight when you tuck your son into bed.. look into his eyes and imagine the hurt he would feel, how it would affect him the rest of his life if you go through with this thing.. then when your in bed tonight.. look into your best friends eyes.. your HUSBAND and imagine the hurt he would feel. the betrayal he would feel..
Do you really think its worth it to cheat with this person your so sexually attracted to??
I hope you already know the answer and will get this person out of your life and stay with your family.. You better do some praying

If your here to look for support on what your doing or about to do ... WRONG!.. most of us here have either been lied to.. cheated on..hurt.. or all... I think you need to step back and take a good look at what your doing to your husband, child, and marriage.. seek counseling or talk to your husband.. DO NOT let yourself near this person your talking about if you have any respect for your husband,child, and marriage. I cannot believe your asking us for advice on how to let this man know your interested in him so you can "possibly" cheat on your husband...
MMM MMM MMM!!!

I try and think of things I want to achieve.. and living on or near the beach!!

lol.. yeah guess you should know where your fixin to move to.. its in South Carolina on the beach.. google it my dear..

why do you think I put him in there in the first place... ah hahahahahha

awwwwwwww... you can move to Myrtle Beach with me if ya want!

anyone ever been to this.. its 4 days of country singers coming to town.. Starts tomorrow

a sweeeet hello and welcome to you

do you mean during or after the relationship

i dunno cause Im not a cheater either.. but I can tell ya what the signs are for a woman

another libra here

its been a few days... is there an update?

look man.. Ive been outta the dating scene for at least 11 yrs... this past month has really opened my eyes.. I was alil shy like you too at first.. but now since Ive gotten the feel of being single Im having blast.. all ya gotta do is start talking and I think your gonna be in for a big surprise like I was.. there are alot of women out there that wish you would come up to them and say something.. trust me..and if you get zapped a few times.. oh well.. dont let it hurt your ego.. it happens.. but when you make a strike.. its all worth it..
now go try it! and good luck... have fun with it

can you get over the cheating part?? IMO there is not excuse for cheating.. drugs, alcohol, or anything else. Once a cheater always a cheater is the saying and from experience I whole heartedly agree.. Heck.. my ex even went as far as to blame me for her cheating...ummm with 3 different guys..... imagine that..
If you did get back with her is that something you can just forget about or put in the back of your mind? You say your still finding things out.. well what if you find out she cheated more than once?
I tried giving it chance after chance.. and its all good when theyre begging for another chance.. problem is(in my case) she felt she had nothing to make up for.. didnt have to make up for the hurt and distrust.. after all.. it wasnt her fault.. it was justified..
Sorry.. I just have a problem with cheaters if you cant tell.
Good luck

i having so much fun now being single that it would probably take a long time to actually fall for someone again

welcome fellow Ohioan

welcome neighbor