This makes me sad. I've put a ton of effort into not lying; I've made many conscious efforts to find other ways to express myself, and if I cannot think of a good way to tell somebody a bitter truth, I simply tell them "I dont know what to say right now" or simply "no comment." As my mother often said, "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all" which is not that hard to do, and let me just say I prefer a bitter truth to a sweet lie. To simply not trust someone because they refuse to play games with people they care about really loses me a lot of faith in our species. Even more sadly, most people often seem to think the truth I speak are lies, yet will believe a lie in a heartbeat. Is it really that impossible to not have hidden agendas or false feelings? I can be the greatest friend and someone like you would be missing out a great deal V_V. I'm sure most of you deal mostly in lil white lies and maybe its not so serious for most, but I'm really ashamed so many seemingly take the easy way out from their own discomfort instead of pushing themselves to be the person they hope for in a partner (unless someone wants a partner who lies to them... ugh). That is all, sorry for so many words.