New here as well, says I.

I don't want to 'hook up' though. I just enjoy great conversation and am somewhat starved for it at the present.

I must admit, I am feeling kind of gullible, I was lead to believe there was a chat room here lol. Seeing what I want again, rather than what is there.

Anyways, good luck to you man. Oh, and, No Homo!

@ Riz, You are very polite, are you a real person or a bot.

thankx man n yeah n @Riz i've been wondering the same thing, seems botty

Yes, there are nice guys still around, but, they are not given a chance. I'll prove it by asking questions:

Would you date someone who was divorced?
...How about a guy with "baggage"?
...A guy who starts a sentence with "My ex-wife..."?
...Would it bother you if the guy had other plans already?

If you truly want to find a good guy, ask him if he dated much in high school. You will find out the ones who "had a girlfriend all the time" turn out to be the "A$$H0LE$". And the decent guys are the ones who didn't date much.

But, they were the ones you didn't find appealing. So, the real question is:

"what kind of guy are you really looking for?"

Or a player. How can you tell?

Well being a player can be done two one I would not advise since it filled with drama deceit jealousy and other various emotional turmoil. That is to just be a cheater. The other way is to make it clear you are single and do not want commitment. I cant say both ways dont bring drama a persons way cause people have been known to catch feelings regardless. At least letting the other parties know you are single is more strait forward.

Personally I cannot do either. I was raised to treat others how I want to be treated and I would much rather have a good woman who is loyal to me.