What gets me is women always seem to think they have to try to change us. If you want a challange, there are many reality tv shows to get on. Some of us guys are hard wired to treat our significant others really special and if we like to spoil you then just appreciate it. Life is challenging enough, relationships shouldn't be. They should be easy, comfortable and enjoyable. My experiences with women have left a sour taste in my mouth more often then not. But I keep trying because somewhere out there is "the one". You know, the one who will appreciate a good guy and not try to change him. I would like to find a woman who doesn't smoke. Accept it ladies, us guys are who we are for a reason. Were not broke and don't need fixing. Albeit, we do understand compromise, but don't expect us to give up everything we enjoy in life just to be with you. I've been down that road and now I find myself starting my life over yet again. It's getting to the point that maybe you women just aren't worth the effort on my part. Why is it so hard to find a decent woman out there! I've known guy's in my past that have attempted to take their own life because of a woman. Noone is worth that.

I got taken from a woman living in Accra, Ghana. I did my research and found out Accra is one of the main places for scammers. Luckily she only suckered me out of a few hundred dollars. I reported all her accounts to Mingle2.com and Datehookup.com and they removed her from their programs. I now know what the warning signs are in these dating websites. It's a real shame as I was searching for my soulmate and really got taken. I continue to search for "the one" but do it with my guard up now. Tim.