I have noticed that many people try to have relationships with
people who are really not interested in them in the first place.
Seems common that people try to get someone who is perceived to'
be much better than themselves. That usually does not work.
Best relationships are when people are more equal in appearamce,
education and other compatable aspects.
Form relationships with someone who likes you a lot first.
In the beginning you might not be as attracted. But when someone
is really attracted to you first, many times that makes your part in the relationship more stable.