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distract me?
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Did you find something better to do? or still struggling with task at hand? :)
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I agree with the poster that said if its bad enough to want to cheat just get out. But then u have the guys (or girls im sure) That want to have their cake and eat it too! My X SO is the perfect example. After a time of no sex, no affection, little conversation, atc. ( u can imagine my stress!) We would have fights and I would ask him "why r u here?" and he wouldnt have much of an answer other than I love u. Finally I would tell him, "look if ur that unhappy that u dont even want to b around me then just go" After me finally just telling him to go (for other reasons) I discovered he had been on a dating site for the 6 months before we split. Basically he wanted to live with me where I paid at least half the bills, cleaned up after him and his kid (picture coming home to overflowing ashtrays) and doing his laundry, while that left his days free to hang out on a dating site and Im guessing probably hook up with others.... Someone tell me why I didnt cheat? The only thing i can think is that im a little more loyal.... better morals maybe.... IDK NEVER plan on having a significant other that does not make it an effort to stay productive. From lack of thing to do and abundance of idle time, the only thing a human body will want is to: SLEEP, EAT, ****, ****. If it's a husband, he has to get a job or volunteer, if its a wife, she has to be raising kids at home, homeschooling (for that is her purpose as it is a mans purpose to provide for her and offspring) When we as society misplace things and come up with "innovative" ways to live, we **** things up and then wonder why our life is the way it is. Everything has a time and a place under the sun and everyone has a purpose and a reason. Try a new approach, accountability. If there is none, dont waste your time if the person is not admitting their lack there of and willingness to change. |
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Because in a femenist society where she gets to sell her melons for an upgrade in work or social status its easier to walk away from something then work on improving it.
Dont ponder too long on why they do it (from personal experience) its like fishing. Catch of the day depends on lures. "Cant turn a hoe in to a house wife" -2Pac but instead, look at the situation from a bring point of view. In a world where you can upgrade to a loving caring woman, its a small price to pay for finding out who she really was (Thats the negative side of it) Positive side of that situation= it is better that she cheated and left then cheated and stayed. If she continues to cheat and stays but you dont know about it, consider this next fact: "how much dick are you tasting while kissing her?" do you want to blow every guy she gave an oral report to in a 15 minute making session? Until families start raising and educating their own kids (not public school, home schooling) women will remain as worthless as some of them are today. At the end of the day, she has to be so amazing that you want to cook her dinner after returning home from work, because she raises your kids and tends to the property while you are at work. {{but she beats you to it, puts the kids to bed, has a meal waiting for you, but only after "welcome home i missed you" spoken without words but well understood with an oral report.}} You can build your perfect woman from what you want. Dont let Hollywood sell you an image of a "home maker" that is no more useful then a toaster for social life. You are created in an image and likeness of an all powerful GOD. Dont damn your life to the instructions and definitions of others, all you have to do is imagine it and look for it everywhere you go. |
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