cause most ladys are to dam picky,and always try taking us apart when real prolem is the lady that needs look in the mirror to find whats wrong with her,if some of us man acted like everyone owes me attuide we loose are right on this site i dont think anyone should be on hear if not metal issues and say they are hear for realtionship,and most women on hear i have noticed are down right mean and selfess and self centered,not all but 95% and other half are really looking and not playing games on this site,but hey some people have hookup on this site which is cool.and another is match thing most are not matches,the search engines are missed up to but iam not in control of this site,and is free thats another prolem with it but anyway if got,cool head and truely want find somone i think should try other sites to but alot good people on hear just looking for freinds,but about it,if can turn it around for you then good luck to you.