opening my life for them means there number 1 and they come first over friends,family, everyone

Just because you are dating someone, does not mean that you have to drop everything for that person. Your friends are just as important.

When you date someone, you just simply make time for them and open your life to them.

Only advice I can give you is to keep a really good cleaner specifically formulated for male cat urine handy at all times.
Best of luck!

Both of my cats wear collars. One will actually go out on a leash. He doesn't walk much, though. It's more like walking a little.. rolling around on the ground.. playing with sticks.. repeat. The other won't go out at all.

lol E**** you have one lazy cat and the other is anti-social

happy happy dance wooohooo gonna book my trip to Va tonight an i get to see my pookie in september

Moondark, sorry to say,get used to the fighting and mood swings. Cats are nocturnal, they need to get out at night (whether they are fixed or not)!!

Its their natural instinct.

Think of it like this, how would you like to be couped up all day looking at the same faces. Tensions can rise. I know you love your cats and I understand the situation you are in. Apartment Block. Yes? You can actually walk a cat much like a dog. There is a process. You must get collars on them. Then get the leash and start walking around the house with them and when they are used to that, head outside with them on the leash preferably at night but daytime will suffice if your area is dangerous at night. They will thank you for it!!

Best wishes!!

Edit/ They are males. Yes? The problem with the urinating is they are trying to mark out the others territory but this normall quits after been fixed but it may take up to a year after. They will still go through the motion but wont let out any urine and if they do occasionaly, that foul smell should not be present.

I think they are frustrated Moondark.

Hope this helps.

I don't know what to wear on my date tonight.

Skirt?
Jeans?

We're going mini golfing and then to the movies.
So .. hot .. and then cold.

Good morning

pfft get with the program, its all about lunchables and the jansport on one shoulder.

Generation Y > everyone else

i keed i keed.

heres my respect, elders. "cruisins respect"