I have always and still get alot of attention from younger men. I am currently married to a man 9 years my junior. It was flattering to start with but after 6 years together, I have to say that I would prefer a man who actually has a clue what it means to be an adult.

The "onsite female elders" are in which age group exactly?

I never understood why men or woman felt the need to cheat....until I married my husband. I haven't cheated on him but there has never been one time in our six year relationship that he has ever initiated sex. NOT ONCE. I guess I didn't realise that I was the one initiating every single time. I am not the jealous type and was never bothered about him watching porn and...you know. Now I just see him as lazy and it's much easier to sit and watch porn than make an effort in our sex life.
I stopped initiating and guess what...he started complaining about our lack of sex! I have spoken to him, cried about it to him, nagged him, shouted at him, everything and nothing has changed.

Now, and mind I am not gay, even woman are looking attractive to me right now! It's sad and pathetic but there it is.
We have children, so I can't just up and leave but I crave passion and good loving. So ye, I am thinking about cheating.