Got a direct link????

ROFLMAO.. Peccy (speaking in a Jimmy Stewart voice).. you, you heartless b*astard..you insensitive pr*ck! I thought you would never tell them about that ordeal I had with the pencil sharpener!!


(for those without any sense of humor...this was a JOKE!)

Sorry Lady, I understand what you are saying...but that's just wishful thinking in most cases. Guys and gals are the same..visuals do matter to most, but guys are just worse about it. God made men "visual", so its something that will basically never change. You just have to hopefully find one that has a mind more powerful than his wanker.

Women are worse..ask my lesbian friend. She'll tell you all about it.

WTH happened this time Lady???? You were just fine the other day.

Hmm. very good post!

Coco has returned!!!!

I am mixed on that one. I support the death penalty, but only in a case where there is absolutley no doubt.

As in this case, the man professed he was innocent the entire time. I could not have a verdict for the death penalty in some cases.

But now this poor man, has no recourse what so ever. And what's worst is there were two attorney's that knew this man was innocent but was not allowed to say anything. that's just wrong! There needs to be a safeguard.

LOL, well I see Eric brought up a lot lately.

And it is funny when you said that about a friend being really gay.

I have a good friend, she is very beautiful..but also 100% lesbian. She will drag me out to a club, because she loves to dance, then she will go out and torture the guys and dance with them and rub up against them..but I know she does it for fun and just to drive the guys nuts. She'll even give me a qwik lap dance just to be onry, but I know its for fun and just have to laugh

So yeh, I see your point. It can be funny! Tell Eric I said hello!

LOL..Gypsy are you hinting towards Eric again???

Absolutely agree with that! Just wanted to clarify where the jealousy part originates. The "controlling" is definitely out of insecurities by the insecure person. They think they have to have control to keep that other person from leaving, or doing those things they are insecure about.

Thanks for clarifying.

Serious question here. I know jealousy has "controlling" attributes..but isn't jealousy a direct result of insecurity??

And to the topic itself, it is very poasible for opposite sexes to be best of friends .. just as long as there is no real sexual attraction..because that can really mess a friendship up.

Well of course. If that part needs to be explained to anyone..well they have a LOT to learn.

That's also what I meant about the psychy..its all the emtional and mental factors within that person. The two people should CONNECT and have the same mindset...you know..CLICK!

The "psychy" or mental/emotional part is a HUGE part that is a MUST for things to work well. Again great sex is NOT just a physical act, its a combination of core things.

Then is when you get to the great sex where you can;t walk for at least 10 min after because you have no strength to do so.

ROFLMAO...now that's LEX!!!

Agreed in some cases, but not in most.

Sex is something within itself and we are ALL made sexual creatures...thats just simple fact.

But psychy does play a HUGE role in it as well. It's NOT just a physical act..at least the great stuff isn;t.

Unfortunately most guys don;t understand that you make love to a woman, starting with her MIND! Even just the "sex for sex" still works the same way...much better if you go through her MIND to get her aroused...then her body follows.

So guys, you want to get her in the "mood", do things that will get her in the "mood". There's always going to be times when you don't feel like having sex, and just not interested. But even that can be overcome when done in the right ways. I had a stronger sex drive than my wife, so I had to learn how to get her "in the mood" and did it the RIGHT WAY (there are wrong ways to go about it too) And never once did she not also very much enjoy it as well....even though she started out "not in the mood".

LOL Amen!!!

Sex is too damn important in my book. And to marry that person..better be at least one time a day the house will be rockin for an hour or more..otherwise I would not be happy.

So make sure you are compatable in that area BEFORE you make such a commitment.

That's right Gypsy..you and Eric have been together forever and still have great sex lives! you tell'em girl!

Ummm not really. maybe a little and can certainly have "bad stretches" especially with stress and young children running around. But marriage = bad sex? No way. You have to be compatable in the first place...then you have to keep it interesting... and you should learn to be good at it.

There are many reasons why a marriage or any sex life can get bad..but just because you are with the same person, does NOT make it bad. It can actually get better because you learn what the other really likes.

MAYBE you should take a look from another viewpoint?

I know for fact it can be good..I lived it. Our sex life was not the problems that broke the marriage.

LOL..its just you. Had problems in marriage..just not in that dept.