i have been in a relationship with this man for 3 yrs and we have always fought over the same things throughout the relationship. He will not agree but he is very selfish and refuses to do the things i ask him to do that would turn me on in bed. i have always done the things he ask of me but he wont for me. He has this addiction to porn which isnt a problem except the fact that he always lies to me about his use of it..i beg him to share it with me so our sex life can be better somehow..he says he doesnt like porn and i am all the porn he needs but i am constantly finding his secret stashes of porn he swears arent his.. its starting to make me feel like i cant satisfy him sexually and that i must not be as hot as his porn women.. i am very well built and not ugly at all.. so y does he feel the need to have secret relationship with porn? he actually made me wait 5 hrs once while he said he was doing something when come to find out was a lie..he was online saving porn on a flash drive.. he had me waitin to pleasure his every sexual need but looking at porn was his choice..what gives?