This site is still new. Members are limited right now. Patience.

they are all single. SF women are like M&M's, hard outer shell w/ soft
insides. By that I mean that they have a tuff girl persona that is WAY
to common in the city these days. But as long as you are persistent you
will usually find they crack.

I have been in the club scene for the better part of 13 years. In that
time I came up with 3 rules to guarantee a phone number if nothing else.
1) Be funny. Whether they laugh at you or with you as long as they are
laughing your doing good. At the end of the night if you are the reason
they have been laughing all night you have helped them enjoy themselves.
2) Dance. It really doens't matter if you can dance or not, rule number
1 will apply if you're bad. If your good they will love it. If you suck
at dancing rule number one is already in effect!
3) Buy them drinks! I can't tell you how many times men have been VERY
close to sealing the deal only to wreck it by being to cheap to buy a
girl a couple of drinks. If you can't afford to buy girls drinks your to
cheap to be out in the bars and clubs. They know it and now you know it.
Most guys think to themselves, "Why would I buy her a drink? what's in
it for me? Is there some sex coming from this?" OK, for starters that
right there is not the train of thought you want. A gal will not be
offended if you want to buy her a drink or two. She will be offended if
you take her up to a bar and only buy yourself a drink. Do you know why?
Because that's an asshole move!

Do these three things and do them often and see if you can't meet a
girl.

Why haven't you posted actual pictures of yourself?

Video blogging or video messaging or Video profiles people could make
about themsleves or...

Swinging is such a broad topic. I had a great time with a couple of
girls one night. Nothing bad about it. That night was good fun. Nothing
bad came of it. I always worried if I was with 2 girls at once and they
both far exceeded my "abilities" that I would look bad. NOT THE CASE.
There is to much to do (no pun intended) for anyone to keep track.