I hate when a guy says it first and I have to be like .... Uh, thanks, it's the most awkward feeling to be put on the spot like that. Especially if it's a situation my instincts tell me he's saying it to get an upper hand in some way because why would anyone say that if they weren't sure it was a mutual feeling yet?

This IS a dating website, find a new man... maybe there's validity to his comments???

I think it depends on how extreme, I have a kid but I made sure to take care of my belly the whole time, no stretch marks there which was my main goal, plus I was small when I got pregnant so I was active and ate super healthy. I didn't realize my upper outer thighs had gotten big so I have faint ones there but I don't think guys would notice them. My friend had twins and she has awful ones, to each their own but I do not blame her for not flaunting them because I'm sorry but they are disgusting, her middle looks like a 3D map, she wants a surgery, not sure a tummy tuck can fix that but hope for her sake something helps!!!

I agree! My son has met guys I've dated before things were really serious because if I don't like how a guy is to my kid, then there's no point in wasting anyone's time.