lol thanks and after the next two cents they have a block button :)

i do provide what the state tells me to weather i want to or not it comes right out of my check that aint the issue she needs to step upher effort to do more for herself her daughter and daughters father the girl aint my child i dont see its my place to do anything more im already doing more than them that wasnt the issue with me seeing him its between her and her live in boyfriend like stated she was cheating when he was make he had no clue until my attorney and child support inforcement agency got the court order for the dna test its been i fight from day one because she wanted to hide from the truth to her boyfriend

i love what i do and provide but im not always happy

thats your right i wont judge are you at sea or in a port ima army vet woking fire watch on a river tow boat lol even after all he army navy jokes but thank you for your sevice tonight

yea i did to but as the night wears on its gettibg worse they kids called ive had a few beers and miss them how was your christmas navy girl

hey im deny im spending christmas alone on a boat i stayed behind so everyone else could see there familys i miss my kids anyone here to pass some time with

and as for when hes with me no not a word is spoke about him we play with what will be his step brother and step sisters my youngest brother thats three and youngest sisier two just turned come over and we play kid stuff together i come fron a big family im the oldest of thirteen im sorrry i made a mistake in the act of making him ive dealt with that but none the less i believe in the bonds of family and my son is my family as for he eeds prayers he get them when i attend church every sunday when im home where i was bashed for owning a suit to attend in with my fanily and my girlfriend and her children her work deplicts her attendance so will someonr explain hwy i shouldnt be upset that my son is being used to support everyone else in the household when there are two able bodied adult for the work force to do there role in raising there daughter and themselves now back to the cooment about my attorney fees i look at as them liiveing off his money as taking food out of his belly and cloths off of his back yes im away from home i miss everyone everyday im not out here making a living being selfish im out here to out food on the table light in the hallways shelter over head hot water in the sink i have a standard of how i want my kids raised with more being a wel fare baby myself i want more for my family and will do what ever it takes to achieve them goals for them amen to that if that is selfish i guess paste my name beside

no the complaining is she brags about buying herself new outfits her boyfriend and daughter the same its for my son or bills to raise him but she wont work goverment pays everything and my son still goes with out and to address the comment about it being supervised it starts when she got preg she was cheating on her boyfriend when it happened it took almost a year to get the dna tested i pushed for thru thr child support angentcy to have it to in place that was step one to getting my rights to my son as a father after that was the visitation heraring with her attorny who was paid out of mt sons support kept having it pushed back saying he couldnt be there at last in nov 6th i was granted my first visitation and ordered supervisied for stress on the child being with someone he has never met that can be pretty scary for a child his age and it last untill we go back in march why so long im only home one week a month and at that time ill be granted unsupervised for the weekends untill july when we go back in july where illl be granted my shared parenting and ill heve him the whole week im home at that time my support payments will slashed me and my soon to be wife both work and life very comfortably with the other three children in the house hold i loe it when people assume things there is a saying about assume what i dont get it why im being bashed for fighting to be apart of my sons life

he would need for any of that with me every dime was well spent cuz now he can see his daddy that fought long and hard to be apart of his life thank you

ladt its clear i was 22 worked provailing wage 16 hour days you do you research to figure what that is but that dont leave time for much esle but left me with money and wants she needed money i needed something else i called her she left the other kid at home with her live in boyfriend also that kids drug addict father and came laid with for i paid and she was on her way she she and him are bad examples or my son the right example is you work for what you want and you earn it and that drugs are bad as for my jod im a jod boater that aint on drugs thats rare you have no knowledge of my work ive never even been to the office where i work never met the boss rent off his brother never met my landlord neither they dont care what i do as long as i dont miss crew change and i pass my coast guard drug tests i can tell your from cali and are on bad terms with your x i can also tell im not wasting time reading your whole message i can alxo tell you think people owe you something and will put my months wages that if you even voted it was for obama AND HIS SOCAILIST views buts its your right the rant is why woman dont want fathers that Do the right thing To be apart of the childs life when there are woman the beg the pray for a man to try like i am frenkly i dont care what you say i dont stalk the ***** could careless about her i only care about my son her problem is control she wastes her childsupport on her and her daughter its ment for my son ***** not them you defend that you did the same she would strongarm more money from me on top to see him so i took the right was about things its the slow way but the right and im gaining a son you idiot ive tried being respectful but thats over i dont care who on this site in ny tiny town i know all of them this small town life somethibg you know not much about big suprise if im so bad a abuser a stalker why is the judge giving me my rights with the due process you stupid **** im sorry to the other people reading this but have really worked my nerves Nd i told you to look her up cuz you cabt see her cleanzness as to mine and our other childerns dont run your gums you carry no weight you cant live off tax payers like she does she can work just like me or the other lazy **** can but dont and beg for hand outs and if that makes me bad for wanting more of and for son show me the line for hell and ill wait my turn

you are one hundred percent right i shouldnt think that way i guess it comes from thr way i was raised that people should earn what they get i guess i would get so worked up if town was so small are she didnt just blaintly brag about getting stuff for everyone but him

thanks

what dont you understand i was never with his mom for more that thirty mins at a time i dont talk to let alot stalk her its offical your a nut case social workers would place him with me and misty if we where married which is coming this summer but we have been keeping it clean i can photo copy police reports where his mother used him in carset to steal and was busted she is strung out on pills its my bad i wasnt comoletelt trying to throw under the bus being disrespect its not my style her house aint clean she is a cheap hooker saying it nicely her big fight is with me puching the issue to see him is to muching digging she will lost both her kids there is a reason the judge has set and granted my visitation and why we go back in march to get extended to all weekend when im home ive had case workers in my home pre my attorney

what are the lonlys like me doing tonight

and as for the suit lady its to take the other three children to church i guess it shows that i work hard to make eveything work the way i want it you tell me when you see i had my son while split up with my girlfriend which has olny happened once in alomst four years i was responcable and getting laid why bring that up it looks to me you only read half of what is said if you did you would see i stated i work on a river boat im gone all the time but like i said do some research and tell me how many peolpe my age will have a six figure job by thr time they are thirty im an army vet i know what comment and duty are

well i do know the price of what it costs the complaining she she wont take lazy *** to get a job and i also support three other children of my girlfriends have for four years now there ages are eight six and soon to be five we both work support our house hold idk where your from but im small town ohio not far from youngstown or pittsburgh there are lots of jobs and im trying to do the right thing by him if you know the attorney fees court costs this and that i forked out to get as far as i have to seem to be talking down to but its ok you tell me another twenty four year old man that works a steady job away from home does what needs done for his children and the woman he loves and her children that aint his but raises then as his cuz there dad live close and dont care about them ill shake his hand and say there should be more like you her problem is the say as most people in this country is she thinks everyone owes her them somethin amen to workers in this country thank you

the living off my support is easy they are on hud which pays there rent heap drops gas and electric bill to budget that five hundered foodstamps which means no having to pay fpr food now back to the meaning there aint much living there and as for the visitation ive got what aloted by state so far it took seventeen months to get that far so is supervised for fisrt three month which just started last month but its hard for me because of my job im only home three months a year mainly as stated im a towboater which means i work on a river boat im on the boat two weeks home one week gone then home i travel the whole lenght of the ohio river and all rivers feeding its a job you marry because all polits where deckhands like i am and you research what they make youll see its the easiest way to achieve the well being to take care of my son and his brothers and sisters if and when

why woman think like that that they can just have a kid and deny rights to the father while leeching off his check i have a good job im a towboater i pay508 a month for one child it took seventeen months to finally get my visitation cuz her attorney wouldnt show up and file for contunace but back to the point its not just her its all ovver she wont work and her her eight year old and her boyfriend live off my wages and defraud the goverment hud and foodstamp heap programs why i guess there is no real answer but still its not right

Well im almost to our landing for the load we are shoving just below lock three on the mon i noted above the waters running wish i could add video to this sight uts gona be a dandy spotting it in here but its full of gasioline and everythings icey fun times :)

you have a child with a guy with a job just to recieve child support and refuse to let the father in his sons life even when hes never missed a payment and get angry when i took her to court to see him