Moondark ... Are you sure ... my friends just said it loud and was smiling about their selfishness ... pretty upsetting to me ... saying they have gone with and will go with someone just to get what they can ... I never knew they even thought that way

Mirror .. I see this crud all the time .. where are you that you dont see this ? ... downhomechick ... I couldnt have said it any better myself ... It is about how you feel with a person that matters not how they look or what they have ...

Put it like this ... I have went out with a few guys and not once did they say in their profile they are looking for a intement incounter witch there IS a question you CAN answer yes too ... Its like they see me and WA-LA I want to have her and their not looking for long term/ dating no more , just wanna have some tonight ? ... Im not that pretty , but this is what I get ? ... One guy thinks I have to be after his money ... I have enjoyed every minute of being with him and because I guess cause of how things are today he thinks Im wanting something like money ... I am so fustrated ... Isnt this saying what you are looking for and about reading and seeing if you might be interested and letting them know by emailing or replying back ? ... Not this crud where you have to wonder if the person is just out for anything other than what they said ? ... Maybe I am being too forward and honest ?

Ive been on dating sights for a month or so now .. I have heard about how ppl are today , but I guess I refused to believe it ... I know in the 80s ppl were money hungry and lookin for the best looking person they could have on their arm ... I have found that now it is even worse than then ... from chats and ppl I have know and just looking around I see ppl who think looks are everything .. so sad but the same has before ... but now the money stuff has gone over board ... I was hurt and crushed to have a young man tell me that he prefers older women cause young girls are selfish .... I went to ask a couple of freinds that are in their 20s about it and they came right out and said " YES IM SELFISH " ... Then I turned and looked at someone that I luv dearly and when I saw that she uses a man for his money .... my heart droped ... I was upset cause I luv her dearly ... I couldnt sleep for two nights relizing how ppl I care and luv are so selfish and crued ... I dont ask for anything and have no wants for anyone to give me anything other than their time and have some laughes together ... I have gone on some dates and found that ppl are so dishonest about their intentions ... nothing new tho ... just a whole lot more of it now ... If you are interested in long term relationship then say it , dont say one thing and exspect another ... If you wanna just get laid then say that ... I thought when ya get older you dont play games ... oops I made a error there ... I thought ppl get older they have learned that life is short and it takes twist and turns that can cause you or others to be in places you never thought of ... or you feel things you didnt think were posible and everyone has gone down a path that led them to feel the way they do ... Games are just so stupid to me ... What happened to the days of being with ppl who make you happy weather it be a one night stand or dating or marriage ? ... Why is more dwelled on what a person has in there pocket or what a person looks like ... ALL that could be takin away by a accident or loss of employement ... You could go and find the best looking person that you think you can get and has money , marry that person and heaven forbid something bad happens but their company shuts down/ buisness goes under .. OR they could get in a car wreck and be permently unable to even walk or their body permently scared ... Am I just too old fashion ? ... Or am I just not finding the right ppl ? ... Ppl who maybe go with the flo , but dont play games or are SELFISH ...

Someone said something about Dorthy and Kansas and I am so ticked off at that chick ... Last year I was going to my kid's graduation and went down I think 71 hwy and got tookin to somewhere in a lil town far far away ... so I was LOST ... That lil chick could not take the time to hop on her tornado and give me a ride back to Missouri ... Boy I am stick mad ...

Im new here and Im not sure how this realy works but I am going to give this a whirl ....